When you fall in love, it seems like your love will last forever. So you get married. You want a permanent feeling of love. Yet sooner or later, it happens . . . no more spark.
Perhaps a marriage counselor
tells you to take a weekend trip together. So you give it a try and you feel a
little spark again. But once you get back to your routine, the honeymoon is
over again.
Maybe you try a drug or some
wine to make your marriage better. If it helps, it is only temporary and then
it feels worse. Besides that, you don't want to depend on a chemical for a good marriage.
So couples give up. They
either endure their apathetic, unhappy or stormy relationship, or they get
divorced.
Most people have the wrong
idea about marriage. They think you can just sit back and enjoy it, like a good
movie. Unfortunately, a marriage does not exist just because you had a nice
wedding ceremony. A family does not exist just because you have children. You need
to create it.
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